This was one that i though of as being tame but it
was taken down I guess the truth hurts
The title was the great chicken shit strikes again!
Yahoo Censorship Central
Folks I want to make sure I give credit
where credit is due!
In my wildest dreams I would never think
that a company such as yahoo would choose to delete something intended to
help others. It has came to my attention that truth means nothing to the
fine folks at yahoo!!
I would hope that none of these people that
work in the department that chooses to delete blogs that warn people about
a potential predator would ever have a loved one become endangered because
they didn't get such a warning that might have saved them from a bad
situation.
I didn't as much as get a reason why these
chicken shits deleted what I had to say.
Was it because I include his picture?
But wouldn't that that be a tremendous help in
knowing who to avoid?
Was it because I included his ID's ?
Because this A-hole has a lot of them and is very
sneeky
Was it because I used his real name?
But wouldn't that be something you need to avoid
some loser prick that loves to torment women?
My point is if they had a brain in their
heads they would at least let me know why they choose to delete such
useful information
So since I have to work against the very
people that this menace has been reported to more time than you can even
imagine I have decide to open my own site that should be open soon so I
can give you the details in any and all situations that is too hot for
yahoo... or above their mentality to understand
I have bought the domain name for it
fuyahoo.com and yes the name means
exactly what you think it is a shame slap on the forehead to the
department that allows a predator to seek out his victims and instead of
stopping him they choose to hamper in anyone being warned or protected
from this menace that they have had so many complaints about.
Instead of focusing on the situation they
choose to just delete anything that has controversy in it
Anyone wanting more information about this
and any other thing that I might be able to help you with feel free to
contact me personally
ace@smoozerman.com
Anyone who has any further information
about this predator that I cant mention in this feel free to contact me...
anything you say will have your name withheld unless you specifically ask
to post your name with it
I want to thank all of you
that have sent me so many kind notes and letters thanking me for sharing
this information and I am very glad to be able to prevent you from having
to deal with this jerk. If you want to share the experiences you have had
with any online predator contact me at
ace@smoozerman.com
Feel free to add me to your yahoo
messenger
igotsomethinforu@yahoo.com
If yahoo keeps the censorship up I will be
using my myspace page more even though I do like the way 360 works better
*******A note to all of my friends********
I love you all!
Have a great day
This is a form that I borrowed from a friends site
showing you how to figure out someone is a predator Yahoo did a great dis
service to us all by not only taking down the words I said but the helpful
things that were in the many comments as well
I want you to read the following very carefully and
also think of what anyone involved in this might possibly have to gain!
You will usually find the predator trying to make unfounded claims and
constantly making claims to be the victim instead of the aggressor. Truth
will prevail because just like in math it is the only way things add up
right
Lies and wrongful claims will soon be disproved as
well, pay close attention to the anger and frustration as facts back the
animal predator into a corner
What I offer you here are all facts that are known to
be true, and although many bad things are being said about myself and many
of the victims, we are still not telling you what action to take. We only
want you to be warned so if anything suspicious starts happening you will
have the opportunity to remove yourself from the situation at your own
digression
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The Online Predator
By LrdAzrael
The following is a composite profile of an Online Predator. This
profile was compiled by a number of submissive women for use by
submissive women. It is written from the perspective of a submissive
female whose nature requires her to respond to a dominant male.
The Online Predator
Definition :
The Online Predator is one who uses the mechanisms of cyber space to
hunt human beings with the intent to exploit, rob, plunder and pillage
their body, mind, heart and soul.
Characteristics of a Predator:
1. Liar: (Self explanatory)
2. Deceiver: His self situation is presented as other
than what it is.
3. Betrayer: He is likely to break trust.
4. Insecure: He is worried that others will be faithless.
5. Inconsistent: He will say one thing while doing another.
6. Lacking Honor: Usually while protesting that he has honor.
7. Lack of Respect: He will tend to denigrate others.
8. Transient: He is unlikely to have many long term friends.
9. Manipulator: He calculates and contrives for his own benefit to
the detriment of his partner.
10. Secretive: He will tend to cloak himself and his activities.
11. Charming: If he could not steal your breath away, he would not
be a successful hunter.
12. Selective: He will pick victims carefully, looking for
weaknesses and filling those voids completely.
13. Chameleon: He will appear to fit any need perfectly and adapt to
fill any desire.
14. Lacking in Self Control: At times, he may have extraordinary
self control and discipline, a predator probably exhibits these
characteristics in all aspects of
his life. It may be that the only place the predator seems to have
honor and value "Truth" is in the "Relationship" he is developing with
his victim.
CAUTION
When developing a new relationship, make a conscious effort to
observe your partner's interaction with others, not just how he
interacts with you. The predator may well reveal his true self through
his interactions. But, you may only see this revelation if your are
committed to taking every precaution for your own safety.
Predator Warning Signals:
While any of these phrases or actions may be acceptable in a given
context, pay close attention when seeing or hearing them.
Phrases:
1. Do not tell ____________ .
2. (_______) is crazy! (or psycho, sick, a liar, or out to get me)
3. It would be best if you no longer spoke to _________.
4. I do not need to defend myself against lies.
5. They are just jealous (of me, of us, of what we have, that you have
me).
Actions:
1. May seldom be in the D/s chat rooms. Operates from other areas or
private rooms.
2. Has personal information which is incomplete or not verifiable.
3. Becomes defensive or angry when questioned.
4. Questions the sincerity of the submissive when questioned.
5. He will usually discourage or forbid the practice of reference
checks.
6. He will usually discourage or forbid the use of Safe Calls.
The Submissive's Personal Warning Signals:
These are items that a submissive should pay attention to if she is
saying them to herself or hearing them from others.
1. I feel he is just too good to be true.
2. You are hearing consistent warnings from more that one person.
3. Your instincts are whispering " something is not right about this
person ".
Summary:
The final best defense any submissive has against an Online
Predator is her own common sense and judgment. The submissive should
always remember that desires, needs, and the heat of the moment can
combine to drown that judgment. Always take a moment to step back,
take
a deep breath and look at a potential partner with common sense and
not with passion.
Note: ALWAYS ask for references from
other submissives and check them!
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This one is a combination of the blog
I did on control freaks that Yahoo took down
What is a control freak?... A
person who has issues in their life that makes it necessary in their
mind to gan or hold control over people and possessions and or treat
people like possessions.
most of these people try
despirately to gain or take control over other individuals by means of
force or intimidation but in reality they only need this to use like a
baby uses a pacifier to sooth its insecurities and inadequacies in their
own lives.
How do u recognize a control freak?
Their are many attributes that fit these people of pain, they try very
hard to hide the fact that they fear not fitting into society or being a
useful part of any group. Because of this they try to put on a tough act
or look rough and tuff talk boldly and abrasively to people with the
hope of intimidating them to get the desired reaction (bully their way
thru life)
Please note that it would be much
more expectable for them to try to reason with, or discuss and debate an
amicable conclusion to many situations than to try to force their will
upon others!
The problem is they need to feel like they won a battle to help them
build their confidence in them being powerful or in control and for as
many times as this works for them it tends to make them worse about
needing this false feeling of power to exist.
Signs to recognize a control freak
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It is a common practice for these
control freaks to try to separate you from other people,
by doing this they try to brainwash the
victim into thinking being around others is causing problems
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Throw a temper tantrum about spending
time around friends or family
this is the theory of divide and conquer if they can get you away from
anyone who cares about you they can make you feel that if they weren't
in your life then no one else would want to be
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Self righteous they are never wrong to
hear them talk IT WILL ALWAYS BE
SOMEONE ELSE'S FAULT!!!
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These people are also very Jealous and
untrusting because they usually do all of the things that they will
tend to accuse you of ever doing
They feel as though since they are
doing it that you have just as much of an opportunity to be doing what
they do It is a basic human mind set to presume
that everyone thinks and does as we ourselves do
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Control freaks are more abrasive and
violent that normal people because they use intimidation to attempt to
gain control just as a baby uses loud crying to get things it wants
control freaks use loud verbal abuse to try to get what they want
YOU WILL NEVER WIN AN ARGUMENT WITH THEM BECAUSE
THEY DONT LISTEN TO REASON
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MOST OF YOUR FRIENDS AND FAMILY WILL
NOT BE WELCOMED AROUND YOU
Because if they separate you from them then you might not have a place
to go to get away from them , and they care about you so they might
remove you from this dangerous situation
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Most of their friends have abusive
history... and will point out that they do too, most of your friends
wont be welcomed anywhere near you
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Most of the people they try to control
are weaker or female in most cases
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Many of these control freaks will abuse
substances just as they do friends and people
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Control freaks will keep you under
surveillance to make sure you have no chance to escape them
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No matter how hard that you try you
will never make them happy
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GET AWAY FROM A CONTROL FREAK AND STOP
BEING THEIR VICTIM
~It starts as common interest..then maybe a chat or
two on yahoo messenger..then maybe a few phone calls.. THEN BAM!!!~
Thanx Becky for my next post~
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I FOUND
THIS POSTING ON MY CYBER RECOVERY PAGE...I HAVE EXPERIENCED THIS
KIND OF BULLYING AS HAVE A FEW OF MY ONLINE FRIENDS HERE IN
360...I FOUND THIS TO BE INFORMATIVE ON WHAT U CAN DO TO STOP
SOMEONE FROM HARRASSING YOU......SO ENJOY AND LEARN
Cyber bullying is becoming a major problem on
the Internet. It is something that is not understood by many
people until they actually come face-to-face with it. Because
bullying on the Internet tends to be more psychological than
physical, many people are apt to dismiss it out of hand. "Sticks
and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me" does
not apply here. Words are the very medium of the Internet and they
can be used with devastating effect.
It's not also limited to children bullying children, either. Many
adults have become victims of cyber bullies as well. They're
bewildered to find themselves singled out, treated differently
from other people in their online group, margined, ignored,
sidelined, overruled. They'll find that everything they say is
being twisted or distorted. Their reputation is trashed. It
doesn't help to quit a group and walk away from the situation. The
bullies will often follow them online from forum to forum, group
to group, chat to chat.
It doesn't take much to become the victim of a cyber bully. For
children, the bullying often starts in the playground and is taken
online. For adults, the bullying often starts online, usually with
an innocent remark that is taken the wrong way. As Internet users,
our communication with each other is truncated because it is
limited to the written word, and possibly a few emoticons.
Sometimes someone is perceived as a cyber bully when a remark is
taken out of context. Then a flame war results.
Either way it starts, cyber bullying can morph easily into cyber
stalking and even stalking in the real world. It may get to the
point where third parties are required to become involved. Legal
intervention may also become necessary.
Even if it doesn't get that far, the bullying can have devastating
effects on it's victims. They'll manifest symptoms such as stress,
tension headaches, migraines, sleeplessness, nightmares,
irritability, poor concentration, depression, shattered
self-confidence, low self-esteem and more. In the long term, it
may result in the victim requiring physical or mental health care,
or possibly both.
Why do cyber bullies act the way they do?
Boiled down to it's essence, bullying is about power. A cyber
bully wants to put their victim in distress, Therefore the bully
will embark upon a series of repeated, intentionally cruel actions
against the victim that are intended to hurt or humiliate them.
Reacting to the bully only serves to confirm their feeling of
power. Their online mission has succeeded in their own minds.
Many cyber bullies work to convince their online peers to exclude
or reject a victim. Their mission is to cut the victim off from
their social connections. Once the person leaves or is 'banished'
from the group, this serves to confirm the cyber bully's sense of
power.
The Internet tends to provide people with a false sense of
security, and thus makes it easier for people to do things they
think they can 'get away with.' People will say things online that
they would never say to another person face-to-face. They have a
sense of being removed from their actions and the people they are
tormenting.
Bullies bully because they can. They've gotten away with that type
of behavior in the past and so they keep on repeating it.
Unfortunately many victims never speak up. Many other people are
also afraid to speak up against the bully. They are afraid that if
they do, that will put them in the cyber bully's radar and they
will be the next person to be victimized. This reinforces the
bully's belief that they are untouchable.
How to deal with Internet bullies
Usually the best response is no response at all. If you react with
anger, then the bully wins the round. If you react at all, the
bully wins - they want the attention. Ignore them long enough and
they'll do either one of two things.
1. They'll get bored and go away
2. They'll increase their efforts to get your attention. Hopefully
they'll get to the point where they do something so colossally
stupid that you can report to their ISP and get them kicked off
the Internet.
Don't post a long dramatic good-bye message to your Internet
friends. That is blatantly out-and-out telling the cyber bully
that they've won. You validate their actions and make them feel
like they can get away with more of the same behaviors.
Document every action against you. Create a private space online
that exists solely for the purpose of collecting their
mean-spirited posts, insults, slander, etc. If need be, you have
evidence to back you up should you have to go legal on them.
If you run a message board and see a cyber bully victimizing
someone on your message boards, don't let the message stay on the
boards. If necessary, moderate the cyber bully so that they know
that they are being watched and documented.
The law and cyber bullies
Different parts of the world have different methods for dealing
with cyber bullies. Unfortunately in many instances it is
difficult to get law enforcement officials and ISP's to take cases
of cyber bullying seriously.
In Canada it is a crime to communicate repeatedly with someone if
your correspondence causes them to fear for their own safety and
the safety of others. Many other countries and ISPs do take
communicated threats very seriously. In one instance that I know
of personally, a person threatened to send someone else's computer
a virus and then followed through on it. Even though the incident
happened across international borders, the bully's connection to
the internet was terminated by their ISP.
In many places it is also a crime to publish defamatory libel. In
Canada that means publishing anything (this includes posts on
message boards) without lawful justification or excuse that is
intended to insult a person or damage their reputation by exposing
them to hatred, contempt or ridicule. A defamatory libel may be
expressed directly or by insinuation or irony.
A cyberbully may also be committing a Human Rights violation if
their bullying spreads hate or discrimination based on race,
national or ethnic origin, colour, religion, age, sex, sexual
orientation, marital status, family status or disability.
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learning experience for everyone..They may come off as
kind,comfortable and gentle as hell..but please get to know your
people.If anyone EVER has a problem WHATSOEVER with any kind of
MISBEHAVIOR on your page that makes YOU feel uncomfortable ..We now
know where to go for online help for harrassment and bullying and
pedophiles etc..
Any bullying or harrassment to me or my friends
on my page will be documented and turned over to the proper
authorities..Because I can!!!~Dee |
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